The Raincoat – by ada limon
The poem “The Raincoat” begins with a childhood memory where the baby struggled. The speaker had a crooked spine that required therapy and care. Inside of this poem, the mother dedicates herself to help find solutions, such as taking her child to massage therapy, driving long distances for treatment, or even osteopathy. During these drives, she encourages the kid to sing, which would make the experience feel more normal. However, at this time the child does not realize the hard work that the mom is doing to care for them. The poem shifts to the present though and the speaker is now an adult. They reflect on those moments with a new understanding. One day, the speaker sees a mother shielding her daughter from the rain with her own coat. This act shows a powerful symbol of protection for the speaker, showing how his mom always cared for them. “My whole life I’ve been under her raincoat thinking it was somehow a marvel that I never got wet.” The poem shows the sacrifices from parents that people do not usually see. It shows how we do not always recognize what they do and how it affects us until later in life.
Mary Cassatt’s painting “The Child’s Bath” reflects the same themes of care as “The Raincoat”. In the painting, a mother is cradling her child and washes its feet. In the moment of this painting, the mother is completely focusing on her child and showing full protection. Like the poem, the painting shows the deep love and protection that a parent gives on their child. It also shows the sacrifices that a parent makes that the children often do not remember. Both the poem and the painting explore the same ideas that love is quiet and that parents make sacrifices. In the poem, the mothers sacrifices are revealed overtime as the speaker finally becomes an adult. In the painting, the mothers care is shown with her actions. Both of these suggest that love is found in everyday moments. Cassatt’s composition helps to highlight the mothers care through her posture and attention to the child. She leans in, focused on the childs needs and is very caring. Similarly, the poem contrasts short moments with the steady presence of care, showing that love is not always dramatic but sometimes quiet and not noticed until later in life The poem’s final words, about always being undre the mothers raincoat without realizing it, connects deeply with the image of the mother in the childs bath. Both of these work to help encourage reflection on the sacrifices of those who care for us.
All in all, both the poem and the painting emphasize how parents care for their children, showing how care is often found in small moments everyday rather than large gestures once in a while. The mother inside of “The Raincoat” and in “The Child’s Bath”, both remind us to recognize and appreciate the love that was always there for us, even when we did not see it.